Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Adoption Blues
Tomorrow marks the end of month three of my wait. The best way I can describe it is being on line in the longest line at the grocery. And the line hasn't moved in three months! Yep. I think we may have had one referral since I've been DTV. I was a little down from our update today as I read that we won't have an infant referral for a while. I love my agency, and the fact that they do communicate these things to us, but each week without a referral and no real idea when another infant one will come in causes doubt to grow in my heart. I've been rolling with it, but this update struck me. I called my sister and spoke with her about it. While talking to her I decided that it's far from the worst news that we could have received, and maybe things will pick up in the future. Trying to stay positive!
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4 comments:
I think we are in the same boat. We are 10+ months into this wait, when we were DTV there was a 3 month wait.... Our agency also has not had an infant girl referral for almost 4 months, I hope a bunch are coming up.
Hang in there, it will be worth it in the end.
I hope that things start moving soon!
The waiting is horrible, but when we have our baby in our arms for the first time I'm sure we'll all realize that the wait was so worth it. Take care and I'm wishing you a quick referral!
The waiting stinks! Vietnam is so different from China..each agency does it their own way. We have a 2.5 yr old from China and we have been DTV for a little sister for one month....who knows how much longer. I hope you see your child soon!
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